Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Thinking About You Tonight, Thinking About You All The Time Schizz Because I Love You So Much!

My thoughts and prayers go out to all the folks in Buffalo, New York, as they are going to get slammed again with snow overnight.  My niece, who is a native of Massachusetts, downloaded this picture of
"Troop T" on her Facebook page.  Its such a amazing photograph.  Where I live we never see that much snow, so its a sight to see.
Hope and Pray you are doing fine tonight Stephen.  All my hugs and kisses to you as I hope you had a very good day at the office..  Of course thinking about you comes easy for me because, you have always stayed in my heart, so please take care of yourself, you are so loved by so many especially this lady who misses you so much!
I always have to check on you..you know, Love you so very much Schizz!


Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Nice And Peaceful Evening To You Schizz, Hope And Pray You Are Keeping Warm Dear Wonderful Man!

                           Gosh is it ever cold here, keeping warm and not venturing out too much. The chill goes down to the bones and aches.  I remember when the blizzard hit in 1978, we kids used to go back in the field where the snow was deepest and play on a downed tree until our feet got numb.  Now if I go out on my step, darn if my feet get numb just doing that.  The weatherman made the comment this morning that just because we had a "Fluke" weather system come through doesn't mean it will be a nasty winter.  I am not real sure of that statement because well, lets face it on days like today no one says "Thank goodness we had a sub zero day with snow and its not winter yet.." right?
                         Only good thing on nights like tonight is to cuddle up in a big thick blanket with a hot cup of your favorite beverage, for me its tea.   Night time tea is the best, its so relaxing right before bedtime.   Even though I'd rather cuddle up with you, Stephen, I have to do what I can and settle with just a blanket, hot tea and my dogs (who steal my blanket).  Honestly I rather have you with me.
                        Please be careful and don't overdo anything and stay safe and well, love and prayers to the family, but love and prayers for you the most.  The kids are doing a lot better, getting ready for their concert Monday before Thanksgiving break.   Love You So Very Much !!!!!!!

Monday, November 17, 2014

If This Was Our Camelot Schizz

                                      Pray you had a good and safe day and that all the family are doing well. We did get at least 4inches of snow today.  It got so bad this morning they cancelled school for the kids.  Now its going to get cold, with more snow Wednesday for us.  Much of what they were reporting today was how the weather was effecting us.  The East Coast will get hammered with the storm system that blew through here today probably, if it does, it will be Wednesday. 
                                      I had to think of something more cheery than that information, I guess the only good about what happened today is that it sure could put a person in the mood for the Holidays.
                                     You know all I ever wanted for Christmas, is the same this year as last.  Just to be a permanent part of your life Schizz, always next to you, instead of being far away, love you so much!!!
                                     I had to just get you to smile, so I made up an awesome thought of if our world was Camelot right at this moment in time.  You'd be Sir Stephen Of Amesbury, Knight of  Pure Healing, keeper of the devoted heart.   Me, well to be in this story I'd be Lady SallyJean, commoner of Lewis Center,  keeper of the light of hope and faith,so many miles away, but close in heart forever burns the fire of love.   How's that for romance.  I hope that gives you a smile !
                                   Please take care of yourself, my love, devotion and commitment to you always and forever.  Love and prayers to everyone.  My thoughts are with all of you!

Sunday, November 16, 2014

Please Everyone Be Careful As The Snow Is On Its Way....If You Are Out And About Tonight And Tomorrow. Love You Schizz, You Stay Safe As Well , Have Good Day Today And Tomorrow!

                We are all under a Winter Weather Advisory for snow (3 to 5 inches) not sure how much we will really get, But Delaware and Central Ohio are forecasted to receive the snow between 12 midnight to 3pm tomorrow.  I am not exactly sure when this system will hit the East Coast as of yet but will know more tomorrow.
                Just all of you be careful, I know as it gets colder, the chances of accumulating snow increases.  My Love And Prayers Go Out To All Of You, especially you Schizz as this system goes through its paces.  The kids and I are still fighting this cold at least I feel better enough to nurse the kids.  Please look after yourself Schizz, worry about you too, even though I can't be there, Check on you later, Love you so very much!!!

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Praying You Are Having A Good Evening And Getting Rest Too Schizz!

                                   Feel a whole lot better tonight after resting some today.  Been hitting the orange juice and it seems to be helping.   While resting on these cold days, I have had visions of cuddling next to you by a nice warm fire.  That would be the greatest cure of all..well for everything!
                                  I can't help thinking that when all they can talk about on the weather is significant snow fall come Monday, their version of "Significant snow fall here in Central Ohio" is snow that actually stays on the ground (3 to 4 inches) not much really but enough to cause problems on the road way.  We have another system coming in later in the week too.  This will go down as the snowiest November in recent history probably.
                                 No matter what it is like outside, it would be nice to be next to you on the inside if I could, there are so many times I miss you so terribly.
                                 I pray everyone is doing well and you most importantly are taking care of yourself!            How else could I say it, I love you so very, very much!  You have a wonderful day full of blessings tomorrow!!!!!
                                                          Love you so much Stephen!!

Friday, November 14, 2014

Hello Mr Schizz, My Guy, Hope You Had A Good Friday, Snow Is Heading Both Our Directions With The Cold-Burrr!

                                          Praying you and everyone there are staying warm and safe.  Its getting color here. The kids and I all have the coughs and chills.  Gosh I wish they came up a cure for the common cold...that's sorta impossible though, I think..I know, rest, plenty of liquids and vitamin C.  The old fashioned remedies..oh Chicken Noodle Soup..I forgot that.  
                                         Had to take my Ford in for a Oil change and then had to have the radiator flushed because they told me the antifreeze in it was at an unsafe level, so I figured I'd save myself a lecture from dad ..The "I Told You So" and have it done.  I remember my brother telling me that the car has similarities to the human body, wouldn't be nice if we could trade our body in though when it gets worn out.  You know maybe that is what the soul is for anyway,so we can always be young.
                                         Love you very much Steve and wish I could be there, please keep warm, safe and well, my hugs and kisses, thought you might enjoy these pictures!
                                      It's John Travolta in Squirrel form...Ahhh  Disco Lives

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Hope Your Evening Was A Good One, If You Ever Have Trouble Sleeping, This Song Is So Relaxing And So Nice


Praying You Are Doing Fine, Hope you liked my blog this morning, been doing better.  Pat (My late husband's mom) and I worked things out, so much lack of communication . Kristy of course will never go that distance .  Her loss anyway.    I just wanted to tell you I love you Schizz, you have a restful night and a Blessed day tomorrow, always thinking about you!!!

Good Morniong Schizz, Have A Wonderful Day, Love You Very Much!

                                              Wanted to do something a little different than normal, wanted to write you in the morning instead last night for a change.  I would have caught you before you went into the office, but my computer wouldn't get moving right.  You have a great day today, hope everything goes well for you.  My love to your family but most of all you!  Be thinking about you all day today!
Have A Great Day, Love You So Very Much!

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Already Wednesday, Hope And Pray You Are Doing Good, Love You!

                                           Tuesday was busy, my daughter performed in the choir at school today and sang "The Star Spangled Banner" for all the Veterans.  She told me that they were moved to tears.  I think it was a very nice thing for all the Veterans to see and hear.
                                           Hope and pray you had a good day Tuesday Stephen.  I know its late again, in fact its Wednesday, I'm sorry it took me so long to write tonight.  Pat decided to send another "Loved " filled letter, actually it was full of excuses I have have heard before when Jeff was alive..nothing new.  My son wasn't buying it when he read it..oh well, I haven't let it bother me, I suppose its because I knew it was coming.
                                           I'm thinking of you, I haven't forgotten you, please don't think I have. I love you so very much, my heart won't let my mind forget you.
                                         We all have that Polar Blast coming, I am not real sure how hard it will hit all of us, so please be careful as you are going out and about.  Thanksgiving ought to be interesting this year that's for sure.  If I know you, I bet you will have dinner at your sister's house, I also wager that she is a real good cook.
                                          The kids and I usually go over to my folks, you know that, I haven't heard much on the plans this year.  It may be a very cold day, if what the weather people are saying....Burrrr.
                                       I will be thinking of you today, I want to express my thanks in memory of your dad, its late but I haven't forgotten his sacrifice as a Veteran as well.  I have a feeling you placed a flag on his grave.
                                       Love you very much Schizz, pray everyone will be safe these upcoming days.  You take care of yourself!!!


Monday, November 10, 2014

Hope You Had A Blessed Day Schizz, I Pray Tomorrow Will Be Wonderful Too!

                                     Hope and pray you are doing good and staying safe.  Thinking about you with much love.    Its getting better here although I'm battling a cold still.  Got to hit the Vitamin C and orange juice right?  You know me, I like my tea the most, of course this time of the year hot tea is the best with a little lemon and honey.   
                                    It would be nice if they boost coffee with Vitamins, especially ones that help the immune system, kinda like Airborne.  I know coffee is your favorite, so anything that help you health wise would be awesome!
                                     I wanted to write you to tell you I love you so very much, wishing you a good day tomorrow, Please, Please keep yourself healthy and safe, my thoughts to everyone there too......But all my love, hugs and kisses are for you Schizz!

   

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Hi Schizz, Sorry I Didn't Write Last Night So Physcally And Emotionally Wore Out, Doing Better Today.

                                        Most important first order of business, hope and pray you and the family are doing ok  The sun is out, that makes it seem just a bit better.  My son and The Olentangy Band Of Pride wrapped up their contest and placed 7th overall out of ten in the state.  He was pretty tired and the band didn't pull in last night until a quarter til 11pm.
                                       Since my emotional drain and explosion of words to Pat (Which I am not sorry for) I am doing better today.  I just so irritated with her and her big mouth daughter, I can just spit (Sorry).   They just assumed that we didn't show up to " Their celebration Bon-fire after Dad' Gary Auction (His Equipment from the Sheds,/Barn, Tractors" was because the kids and I were still upset with "Big Mouth Kristy" and grieving dad's loss (Gee isn't that the right thing) when in fact, my son had a Band Contest that Saturday.
                                      The reason why her e-mail upset me was that the last time I talked to Pat was in August to tell her that I was going in for surgery and how it would be a challenge to work around my son's band practices and upcoming football games and contests.  That was the last time I heard from her, once to tell us about the bonfire a week before and two days ago when I got a nasty e-mail stating that since they haven't heard from us for a while, they wanted to know where they stood and if we didn't care, don't  bother to e-mail back....Ahhhhhhhhh how nice, I e-mailed her back alright.  Another statement she made was that she knew that it has been difficult since Jeff died and that we missed Jeff and Gary but so did she..we should just get over it..in another words...gee, its nice to know that she can "Just get over it" when her husband is only been gone little over three months
                                       The upsetting thing to me is that, she never bothered to pay any attention to the kids and the activities they had for school, never came down to see my son (her grandson play at the games .)  Never asked to see how the kids and I were doing, never bothered.  She just expected us to show up at this "Bon-fire" and when we didn't she used it as an excuse to get back at us, even posting it on her Facebook Page how terrible we were.  Even though I never said anything to her at all.   Bating these kids with some of their grandfather Gary's things to get us to come up.  She travels around Willard and went to Indiana.  I told her plainly, that she could have checked on us, if she could drive all around Willard with her other grandchild, go to Indiana, then she can march her "fanny" down here.  I'm not the only one who can communicate.   She has free-time!
                                        With all the Band Activity and Fundraising, for me I don't have too many free minutes.   If bringing those things for the kids meant so much to dad then "Where Is She At?" even stooping as long as using money to get us to come up.   I could tell her a good place to put it and it isn't between the mattress and box springs.
                                        I know their grandpa Hutchison wouldn't want these kids to fail at their education at school.  You know that my son's participation in Band is a grade for the class.  My daughter has her studies and with her grandpa gone, she doesn't want really to walk into the house up there, brings too many memories back that she just isn't ready for and I'm not going to force her.  I just don' want to throw her off health-wise after she has done so well.  Her grandma Pat don't care about that or all that my daughter and I have been through, not to mention my son.
                                      Pat wrote she didn't understand what the problem that everyone has with her and Kristy...Really?
                                      I can take the hits,being treated badly by them, but to treat the kids that way was about the lowest, dirtiest and dastardly thing a grandparent could do, it may take the kids a long while to get over this.  Her comment was that "She was doing her part to be a good mother and grandmother. "
                                     Dad Gary was a good grandpa and was so very proud of these kids and everything that they have achieved since their dad's death.  I tell my son and daughter that every time they feel sad about their dad and granddad's passing.  I know he loved them as he did with all his grand-kids, he may not have said it that much but he always showed it with his actions.  He was a good man.
                                   As so are you Schizz, I know you care for so many and I hate having to share this kind of thing with you.  I would rather ask how you and the family are doing. Sending my love everyday with kisses and hugs.  I always think about you whenever I write.  You are so very important.  I am proud of you! Please take care of your self, I love you Stephen!

                                            For You Schizz, Hope This Gives You A Smile
                                                         Goodbye Dad Gary Hutchison

                                   

Friday, November 7, 2014

Hello Schizz, Sorry Its Late, Just Got So Upset, Hope You Are Doing Ok, Love You So Much!

                                     How's life treating you tonight? Hope and pray you are taking care of yourself and that the family are all ok.   I am just so upset, Pat (my late husband's mother)had to push me like she did when Gary was working, now that he's gone, I guess it gives her free rein to treat us anyway she sees fit, tonight and I just laid into her..gosh, I just wish they would let the kids and I live our lives.  All I ever wanted was to be happy..it just seems like that's kinda hard to do, sometimes I wonder if I ever will get any better than I am now.  I wish I could talk to you face to face and help me understand.  I know you have so many other responsibilities that you can't.  I could sure use one of your hugs right now though.
                                    Looks like winter is going to hit early, not ready for that.  I wish I felt better emotionally, I miss seeing your wink of reassurance, the touch of your warm hand.  Please keep taking care of yourself, I care about you and love you so very much.  Got to go to bed, my son has to be at the school for band contest at five am,
                                     My love, hugs and kisses

 Thank you for being there Steve, wherever you may be, I can always feel your love and caring!
 


Thursday, November 6, 2014

Hello My Dear Schizz, Hope All Of You Are Dry, Gosh We Are Getting Wet!

                                             Ohio weather is dependable, dependably unpredictable hour by hour! It has been so dark and dreary today.  Going back up 23, there was an accident on OhioHealth Blvd. Three cars were involved in that.  Someone on William street nearly creamed the front end of my car with their big Cadillac failing to see me in the turning lane.  I figured I was done with my errands for the day and went home, enough of that, then I seen the accident on 23.  Rainy days cause more problems than some people realize, I think all of us take it for granted that its just rain but it can be troublesome.   Ok, I'm done with my dad's "Ohio Highway Patrol" lecture for now.
                                            Hope you are ok Schizz, worry about you on days like today! Pray your day was a good one.  Heard your favorite band on the car radio ..its nice because its like having you with me.
                                         I always pray that The Lord keeps you safe and I know He does.  I like sharing with you my concerns about you yourself..can't help that "Mr Debonair Stephen Schizz" "Massachusetts Man !"
                                        I have to share this story with you, it will give you a chuckle.  Last Sunday my sisters, brother-in-law and my nephew (My brother's boy) decided to help my parents take down a tree beside the house.  You remember how I joked that they should play "The Lumberjack Song" by Jackyl whenever my sisters and mom get together.   They lived up to that song, my dad and mom told me how my eldest sister Jennie was tossing the limbs and such like nothing..my oldest sister is shorter than me and weighs equal to a sheet of paper.  My other sister Vick called her "Pauline Bunyan" and got called "Smart A**" ( I got to check, they make a board game called that, it looks fun!)
                                        I wonder what pet she would have carved out of a mountain if it wasn't a blue ox  because she isn't an animal person....Hmmmmmm..I'll have to think about that..the only thing I can come up with is A BIG BLUE PICKUP seeing she is always moving landscape materials around like trees and rocks....anyway, dad was laughing at her and my nephew, who since six months ago is determined to eat an all organic diet.  He is no bigger than a twig himself.   So I bet it was like having "Pauline Bunyan and Eulle Gibbons Logging Company around."
                                       Pray that you are keeping safe and taking care of yourself!  I do hope the family is well too. I know you care about everyone around you, especially your family..that is what is so wonderful about you, just a facet of the many qualities that I love about you. A hug and kiss that tonight and tomorrow will all be good as we head into the weekend!  Love You So Very Much!!!
I know I have posted this twice before, my sisters never saw this until I mentioned it a month back.  Mike , Jenn's hubby, knew exactly what I was talking about.  Jenn, Vick, started laughing at it while my other nephew Scott was so amazed that a person would actually play a chainsaw as an instrument
For You Schizz,Just One Of Your Favorite Groups... Love You So Much!!!!!
                                          

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Hello Schizz, Hope You Had A Good Day, Thinking About You!

                                              We are over the middle of the week, November is going right along at a good pace...yikes. Hope you had a good day Steve.  It was better today for the kids and I.  My daughter went back to school and has been working on a Biography of dad's time in Korea for school in honor of Veterans Day.  Dad asked me why she didn't do it on her dad. I told him that she wanted to do a report on him because he is still living.  It meant so much to her to have dad share his information.  I think about your dad too Schizz, so much of love and History go into those bittersweet memories,  his time with all of you were precious, I know you all are thinking about him this time of year.
                                              I'm feeling better but kinda of stuffed up, my sinuses always cause me trouble.  I was talking to my cousin from Arizona.  He told me that I have such a good nature despite all what they did to me as a child..since I was one of the youngest, I got teased alot, to be honest I don't remember too much about it now.  My cousin Jeff is ten years and about three months older than me and I get along with him the best out of all my cousins.  In fact I wanted to share with you a picture he shared on Facebook of an old restaurant that graced Delaware,Ohio when we were growing up.  It used to sit on N Sandusky Street about where GoodYear Tire does now.  I don't know if they had these fast food places up in Amesbury, Ma but it should give you grin none the less, that dad used to take us there sometimes.
   Hope and pray you are doing fine, and all the family are doing good as well.  I love you so very much, you have a good day tomorrow, I will be thinking about you and if you get feeling stressed, just think of this picture..it should lift your spirits a bit..my love..hugs and kisses!
I had to post this ,darn it, I haven't heard much of them on the radio..just had to hear something from them!

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Hope You Had A Very Good Evening, Love You Very Much Schizz!

                                      I want to write you an awesome letter that states that everything is just so wonderful, there's no trouble today.  Unfortunately, tonight I can't, I think my daughter gave me her flu bug she's been home for two days with, even though I had a flu shot, I still feel a little bummy .  My son is struggling to pull his grades up, which has me concerned,Biology, Science and History are suffering in his troubles.  Earth Science was my worse subject in school, I understand that.
                                     I am hoping he will be patient with the vehicle business and be more concerned with his studies.  I told him that he has his drivers license for the rest of his life but his time in High School comes only once.  Prayerfully he will listen to that.  My daughter does real well in School, if I could only get them both on the same page.  That would be a blessing.
                                     Hope and pray you are doing well Schizz as well as everyone there. Thinking of you tonight and wish I could be there in your arms to give you a hug and kiss.  You get some sleep and have a good day tomorrow, I will be thinking about you all day tomorrow ,as always...LOVE YOU VERY, VERY MUCH!!

Monday, November 3, 2014

Jimmy Scott / An Evening in Paradise, Always With You Schizz!


                I fell a sleep on the couch watching the evening news, guess I was a little more tired than I thought, I am sorry.  Hope and pray everyone is doing fine, especially you Schizz.     I pray your week will be a good one.  I am doing ok, kids are doing fine too, Love you very , very much. Wish I could share this song with you in person.  Hope it is one of your favorites too!

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Just Wanted To Tell You How Much I Love You!

                                              Hi Steve, hope you are having a good day, glad its sunny today.  Cold though, but we have the sun!  My son had contest today, next weekend is the end for the band contests.   Gosh, why is that it feels like I'm behind on Holiday shopping, I know, TV commercials. Know wonder I keep busy working on my art, fundraising and Avon.  Tomorrow I got to do all my errands in town before the kids get home from school.  "Its Beat The Clock" tomorrow, remember that old game show?
                                             Driving my son over to the school today, I listened to The Top Forty count down from the first week in November, 1975.  Some of the songs it took me awhile to recognize.
                                             I sing with those old songs the kids think I'm nuts, they never say it, but its the looks I get.  Top it off with two small dogs in a red Taurus..oh well.  Hope that gives you a smile and a chuckle.  Thinking of you with much love , hope and pray everyone is doing well, especially you, miss you. 
                                           Please always take care of yourself, I know I say it everyday, but I always want to tell you everyday!
                                          Love You Schizz!
                                A little more encouragement for you Schizz, For all you mean to me as The Good Lord has made me realize over these years, with you in my life, plans that He had made for you and me are better than my dreams!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Hope You Are Keeping Warm Schizz!

                                        Cold here today, already November and the end of my 47 in 28 days.  It will go without notice.  Oh course Christmas comes earlier every year so its no wonder the stores have all or most of their items up. Avon always does.  Wonder how you are doing today and if its cold where you are in New England.  You know how I miss you, so I always want to check on you everyday to make sure you are doing fine.  I go on the assumption that no news is good news.  Do you still do your woodworking?   Dad don't too much anymore.
                                        Dreamed about you again last night, it was sure nice, you looks as good as you did the last time I seen you.  Sometimes I get scared if I will ever see you again and then I get blue.   I have to rely on my memories as I mentioned before , hope and pray they never fade out.
                                       I pray you are doing fine and the family is well.
Love you so very much, wish I could touch you, even more so get to hear your voice again, miss talking to you in person!